hmm, maybe enom doesn't have to send it

"Your current registrar may also choose to confirm your intent to transfer using Confirmation of Registrar Transfer Request."

So this, which is more official than the Verisign thing I cited below, makes it sound like it was up to eNom. I guess they didn't want to.

I should goto sleep now; I'm glad I get a break from this crap over the weekend.

/me sighs.