still not contacted by enom

i am just hoping that they'll send it any second, and it's not like it wasn't lost
if i don't respond within 5 days, i think it's their call whether or not they wish to just decline at the last second (i think the five day rule was designed for cases where a registrar dies the way ipaska did, not if the admin contact dies), but if they go with the default then i'll be ok, but the transfer won't begin until wednesday :( i am losing so much email.
i could contact them
its possible that iPaska is saying they don't want the transfer.